Sparks do fade!

A month has passed after my bf and I broke up. It was not an easy thing because we've been together for 3.5 yrs... since my 4th year in college... I plan my life with him... but suddenly, the spark faded...

I do not want to believe in the saying that two lovers will eventually feel that he/she has to cut the strings during the 3-4 years of their relationship.... to end the connection between the two of them... until NOW! Yes, my bf and I experienced the same scenario... that the other one became selfish to find himself/herself.. to explore.. to experience new things... without any strings attached onto someone... to do whatever he/she wants to satisfy oneself...
At first, it was very hard to accept, especially when the other half couldn't understand the whole picture... so there is a tendency to do things just to try to win him/her back again... sometimes serious things but most of the time silly things...but out of nowhere, there would be a time that that person will stop.. even if it's painful, that person will eventually learn to give himself/herself respect... and in time, self love..

So if ever you and your bf/gf are having this scenario, let it be! Don't try to fix things because trying to put back together a broken mirror is hard! even if you did fix it, it already has cracks and you will never be satisfied with the reflection that you'll see.... make sense?

Inspired

My title explains it all... Yes! I am inspired by a blogger to start blogging my experiences... travel, love, romance and anything bloggable about myself! So join me on my 'journey taken for pleasure' ---> btw,, this is what 'Sashays' mean. I liked it very much because it has my name "Sash" in it and at the same time the purpose of this blog. :)